Have a Peaceful Universe

Peaceful universe

Realize that our perceptions are temporary and subjective

Free your mind, to see the objective reality around you

…. Without striving toward or lusting for any of it

…. Without withdrawing in aversion

Acting with compassion and lovingkindness

And your Universe will be peaceful


Friday Inspiration – Embrace Imperfection

embrace imperfection




In Yourself and Others

And suddenly….

Life is More Beautiful

People are More Beautiful

The World is More Perfect

Friday Inspiration – A True Friend

True friend picture

A TRUE FRIEND knows how and when to LISTEN …. even when you aren’t yet  SPEAKING

Friday Inspiration: Beauty and Love

beauty is reality


BEAUTY is Simply Reality, Seen Through the Eyes of LOVE.

Painting:  Blue Dancers, Edgar Degas, 1893

Friday Inspiration – Resolutions Edition

disconnect - connect

Since we are in a new year, I thought I’d frame this week’s inspiration in the form of what we need to let go, and what we want to get – Things to disconnect FROM, and things to connect TO.

Happy New Year!

Friday Inspiration – 26 Acts of Kindness

26 acts

After the sadness we’ve experienced from the Newton tragedy, there is a big ray of sunshine.  A movement has sprung up called 26 Acts (hashtag #26Acts), encouraging people to actively engage in Random Acts of Kindness to remember those lost in Newton.

This has already gone viral, with the Facebook Page having 41000 likes.  Here are some resources:

Facebook 26 Acts


Twitter (search hashtag #26Acts)

Random Acts of Kindness Foundation

It’s easy:  Overtip.  Hold doors open.  Serve in a soup kitchen.  Make an extra donation.  Call someone who lives alone.  Write a note to someone who made a difference in your life.  Smile at people in stores.  Leave a dollar on the snack machine at a hospital.

Imagine if we all did 26 Random Acts of Kindness between now and New Year’s Day.  What incredible energy to send out into the universe.  We sure need it.

Happy Holidays!

Letting Go of Tightness

I’m a regular reader of ZenHabits by Leo Babauta, and many of his pieces are real gems. Leo has specifically given the world the right to republish his material. Today for the first time, here is one of Leo’s pieces in it’s entirety. He calls it the Liitle Trick, but it is a simple set of techniques to find and get rid of TIGHTNESS. People who practice meditation often learn quickly how to do this with muscles. Now find the tightness in your mind, and let go of that too!

The Little Trick to Make Any Moment Better

Post written by Leo Babauta.

I learned a little trick while practicing meditation that helped me, not only with meditation, but with just about everything I do.

I noticed I was reluctant to start the meditation, and paused to wonder why that is. What I noticed was a kind of tightness, in my chest and shoulders and neck, but also in my mind. Something about the meditation was causing me to tighten up, and that made me not want to do it each morning.

Well, there are a few choices here: 1) I could stop doing the meditation because I wasn’t enjoying it; 2) I could push myself through it even though I disliked it, or 3) I could let go of the tightness.
I chose to let go of the tightness.

It was amazing. I just noticed where the tightness was, and let it dissipate into the air. What was left was a more relaxed body, a relaxed mindset. And actually it was the relaxed mindset that ended up being most important. I could now approach the meditation with a looseness, a sense of exploration and happiness, that I couldn’t do when I was tight. And then I smiled, and things got even better.

Then I started applying that to everything I did: if I was writing and noticed tightness, I let go of the tightness and smiled — and the writing became instantly more enjoyable. Same for running, for meeting someone new, for cooking and washing and going to the store.
Every moment became instantly better.

The brilliant Lissa Rankin tells us that our mental and spiritual health are just as important as, if not more important than, our body health. She told me that at the root of it is our stress response and relaxation response to everything — work, relationships, day-to-day activities, sex and so on.
There are lots of ways to relax when we are stressed: meditation, yoga, tea, massage, exercise, talking with a friend, taking a hot bath or shower, sex. And I highly recommend all these.

But none of these actually relax you unless your mind approaches them with a relaxed attitude, and lets go of tightness. These things happen to trigger the release of tightness for most of us, but in truth, you can let go of tightness without any of these relaxing activities, no matter what you’re doing.

Here’s how to let go of tightness:

Notice the tightness. Pay attention to your body and mindset as you do any activity: work, meetings, driving, walking, reading, cleaning, talking with a loved one. If you notice tightness, that’s your cue.

Visualize it dissipating. Just imagine the tightness floating out of you and into the air, dissolving into little bits and then being blown away by the breeze. The simple act of this visualization can often work.

Go from tight to loose. You can practice this right now. Pause for a second and clench your fists. Now relax them. It’s that easy. Do it with your jaw. Now your abs. Now your shoulders. You can let go of tightness just by softening, letting go of the tightening that you’re creating yourself. It works for the mind too.

Breathe. Take in a deep, slow breath. Let your attention stay on this breath. Hold the breath in for 5 seconds, then slowly exhale and pause for another 5 seconds at the end of the exhale. Repeat a few times if you like. This can help loosen you up if you need it. If you don’t need it after Step 2 or 3, you can skip it.

Smile. This transforms everything. You can now approach any activity, any moment, with an attitude of relaxed enjoyment.

Honestly, once you’re good at it, you really only need to do one of the three middle steps (2-4). But steps 1 and 5 are crucial.
Notice the tightness, let it go, and smile. This moment, and every moment after, can become instantly better.

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